To Be…. Anyone

LOVE sick! That was exactly how Susan felt that morning. She just could not do anything reasonably and she knew it was because of the grand emotional betrayal that hit her. Instead of the emotional mess ending this way, the guilty one opted for blackmail and it worsened everything.

Now, she is feeling so lonely and depressed. Everything, sadly, is embedded in her heart, mind and soul, making her sick and unhealthy. She decided to clean up her puppy’s cage to divert her attention for good. Then the phone rang and she forgot the puppy in the water. When she suddenly remembered, the poor thing was in a state, shivering. It needed some warmth and her hair dryer came to the rescue. But again it was overdone and her dear pet was not the same again.

Susan has been in the eye of the emotional storm, but survived against the odds. Like her pet, she had been sucked in, washed up and blown over. This is exactly what happens to a lot of lovebirds. One minute they are seated happily in familiar territory with a love song on their lips. Then out of the blues, something strange happens and you switch over to the rejection side of the emotional table.

Just while you are grappling with this diversion, more trouble creeps in and you just cannot fathom how it all began or where you are heading to. Like the pet, you get sucked into a season of doubts, doused with cold water of reality and then stung with the hot air of empty promises. It leaves you soliloquising and crying that this can’t be true. Somebody, tell me that it’s all a lie!

Great hearts should be like parachutes; they function only when they are open. Whatever happens, it was meant to be that way. No point blaming others for the situations that you find yourself in. The real battle is not with others, but with ourselves.

The crux of the matter here is that everyone goes through periods of uncertainty and it can affect their physical and emotional goals. It hurts when you see those who promised you heaven and earth, chicken out when they should have delivered the deal. At a point in life, we are all found guilty of hurting someone and it’s not something to be avoided or ashamed of. As we pursue our emotional purpose, we must learn that what works for A may not necessarily work for B. The average mind is prone to distraction from the intended path. Lovebirds travel the road of emotions, hoping it would be blissful and filled with  excitements.

A few metres ahead, they hit the bump, fall into valleys and what you have is different from the original dream. So how do you avoid the common emotional pitfalls? The truth of the matter is that the answer is not straight jacket.

However, the important thing is to treat those in your life with care. A good heart can be compared to windows letting light into a room, making the hearts that you cherish feel your warmth by your actions and words. Here, you make them see more of themselves in you and they would change some of the habits that you do not like.

Even when you get to that stage, you must not force it; let the decisions come naturally. Fretting about the things you have no control over is a bloody waste of emotional time. Instead, look at your potential, new opportunities, recoup lost emotional energy and rediscover yourself. This way you would become a better heart and the pain endured becomes a learning curve. What would be, would be.

This reminds you of the book, Love in the time Of Cholera. It is about Florentino Ariza who sees Fermina Daza through a villa window and falls in love. Love at first sight? Yes, it is. Though a man of modest means, Florentino’s skill as a poet awakens a similar passion within Fermina. The snag, however, was Fermina’s father, who disapproves of the affair and vows to keep the lovers apart. Well, he did this for a while. Fermina eventually marries an aristocratic doctor, and they moved to Paris. Florentino, however, still loves Fermina and patiently waits for a chance to be with her again.

Falling in love in the time of cholera obviously connotes some confusion; an environment that is unhealthy and if you are not careful the cholera epidemic may claim the life or lives of the lovebirds. Cholera is an infection of the small intestine by some strains of the bacterium Vibrio cholerae.

Diarrhoea can be so severe that it leads within hours to severe dehydration and electorate imbalance. This may result in sunken eyes, cold skin, decreased skin elasticity, and wrinkling of the hands and feet. It is spread mostly by water and food that has been contaminated with human faeces containing the bacteria.

Even if it doesn’t claim lives, it is going to be tumultuous and a lot of strain would have to be contended with. Interestingly, the highpoint would be that at the end love may just conquer all.

Love is a universal language that man ought to understand.

                          

– William shakespeare (Romeo and Juliet)

The fact is we all fall in love, once in a while, consciously or unconsciously with something or someone, maybe even YOURSELF but everything remains if you love be ready to do it with all your heart. I have learnt loving comes with risks even if it’s yourself, no one is licensed to love you and give back all the commitment you have made in a certain relationship.

So far so good, even we ain’t able to requite the love our birth mothers give to us and so is life. Love isn’t measured by the gifts, cards, flowers or words you give or say to a person but how much they mean to you.

It’s the thoughts that count.

The true meaning of love isn’t the feelings we have towards a certain person but seeing them happy even at the cost of your own happiness. You’d be happy too, trust me you would even if it’d hurt alittle.

That’s love and it’s all about seeing your loved ones happy.

Love is a natural feeling, which can neither be stopped nor caged. It will always find it’s way back to you.

Rage. Betrayal. Hate. Passion. Commitment. Each one of this phenomenal is birth by love. In one way or the other it’s all about love. Love makes the world go round.

There’s a thin line between love and hate.

You must be wondering why I’m talking all love all of a sudden. Well exactly a month from now, the whole world will be celebrating Vday – the day of love. So I decided to remind y’all about what love means. I’m not a love gruee but have had my fair share of love and hate.

Like you already know……

I can only ever love you😊

A happy Valentine’s day from now to the future,

A very happy new year and 2021 ahead, can’t tell you how happy I am we made it this far.

Also apologizing for a slow update, wrapping up the previous year was distracting but now I’m all ready to start on a new page😘

A special thanks goes to everyone of our followers, my favorite content writers, bloggers everywhere and most especially, the team behind the works here at Pixie’s Blog. I genuinely love, cherish and appreciate all your hard work and I promise to do better as well . A big thank you to everyone who helped us surpass a thousand plus views, we love ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ you so so much.

Like, share and tell us more about what you think Love is or other things related.😘😘😘

Signing off now,

Your psycho girl,

Kantierbee 🐝❣️

A new journey

Time passes slowly, like a stream moving swiftly, quickly, slowly, gently. Birth and death becomes the air we breath, atleast until it’s our turn, old or young we can feel it.

The suiting not so suiting feeling that comes, when the sunshines we shine together, when the moon shines as the gentle cold breeze blows somber or not we can tell.

Everyone has a new agenda, a plan , or perhaps none at all. Hoping that the wind will lead us home, together or as one, alone or united, what will come to be will not wait .

Time is the only thing that we can still trust, because it keeps going, it doesn’t stop, it’s still going. As old as time
Only one is as old as time, and secrets passed through time, secrets forgotten through time, time is really the only thing that we truly have , the only thing that is set not to fail.

When the sun will shine, it will shine

When death will come, when it is time for death , it will come

When it is time for progress, progress will come

When it is time for sadness and joy, it will come

Time has never failed, atleast this far,

Hold on to your time, trust your time, manage your time, wait for your time.

It is true that time waits for no man, but yet again time does wait, cause when it is your time it will happen, time is waiting till it is your time. Don’t fret, among seconds , hours and years.

There is a time for you, there is Lia’s time, there is a time for John, there is a time for everything, the only thing you have to hold on to , the only thing you have to wait for is your time.

Some can’t wait, some don’t wait, and that’s why we have a glitch in time.

When time starts anew , it’s still continuing but it marks the start for something new. It may get hard to wait, but trust me it is worth it.

Someone wise once said, patience is something that doesn’t last, but when you wait , when you endure, and believe that there is something which you need to hold on for, then it seems like it could last forever.

~ 😊Smile(◍•ᴗ•◍)❤

A few hours more so SMILE

Just stop for a minute and smile,

Why is everybody so serious

Acting so mysterious.

Forget the money, money

For get the crying crying

Forget the worries worries

Forget the sadness sadness

Forget the situation

Just have a good time

And smile.

The year 2020 is coming to an end in a few hours time, and we are welcoming a new year. I know the year has been hectic, annoying , frustrating, and so many things to you, but for just this few hours more , forget all that not because you are irresponsible, or because you are wicked, forget it because you need to smile, your smile not being there is making someone sad, if there is no one then it’s me. I can’t see you but please smile😊😊.

You look absolutely lovely when you smile. 😘❤️

New year Eve greetings to you and everyone you care about.

This is the very last post for this year, so let’s wrap it up with a smile ☺️, let’s be happy and spread the happiness.

😊❤️😊❤️😘☺️ Xoxo Puxila

Read please…. It’s for you.. yes you….

Hey peeps… How have you been, 23 of December , which was yesterday was my birthday and I had some fun…

And I thought, I am forgetting something… I finally remembered, today Is Christmas Eve…. Merry Christmas… Friends…….

I wish you a long life, I wish you the best of every second…. I probably can’t give you the best gift , but I’d tell you this….

😘You are awesome just the way you are.

You gotta keep smiling, if not my oxygen will run dry🤭

That face is what I’d love to see very morning…..

Thank you for being you……

*Ho hO ho, imagine santa laughing…… Merry Christmas…… Kerry Christmas and a absolutely marvelously, awesometutly ñew year

The year 2020: A Time in our lives

The year 2020 is a major year that will forever be in history but unlike most years this year will be recorded for different point breakers. Alot has happened in this year, in different countries this year signifies many things but for the world this year can be called the Worldwide Lockdown because of the pandemic that resulted to many countries going on a temporal lockdown.

Expecting the unexpected is the only thing that is expected.

-Lia

The saying “change is the only permanent thing” is justified by the happenings of this year, who would have thought that half of the world would lockdown due to a pandemic. When we stop to think about the events of these year then one can’t help but be amazed.

Years will pass…… Time will pass,

Among many nations, some may perish…..

But in the end history for tales the future.

The video above… Is a summary of it all, I hope you know that somethings happen but they don’t always have to be who we are. Another year approaches make the most of it, of course we know not what the new year brings but we have been through this year and so many years, we are fighters and nothing can hold us back, stay strong 💪, cause together we are strong ….

Stay safe dearest and have a fun-filled Christmas and a jolly , holly, new year….. Keep smiling cause your smile is beautiful and don’t ask me how I know🤭, let’s just say a little birdie told me…..

Do tell me how you feel about the year 2020, and share your thoughts…… With me☺️

The new dimension found.

Once in every Summer’s night

Lies a brand blue night

Among the silver bright stars

Awaits the shepherds call.

Syncing disharmony, to make unity a thing,

Long forgotten are the trespassed lands

Abandoned by Oz’s Adventure

To live in contempt and dispair

Faraway in the tunnels of lies

Space, and distance,

How love and hate fools the people

In ages past,

After times gone by….. A new dimension is found.

How have you all been….. Hope you like this short mixture ….. Have a taste and let me know….. What you think.

So right, yet so wrong

Hey people how you doing? hope you are doing well, I am.

I don’t know if you ever get this feeling, but I did and it was at this instamt. I took the money Jared had been owing me since a month ago , when he came to me to borrow some money I agreed , knowing he would pay as soon possible, but yet we agreed on two weeks, weeks passed and soon it was a month, Jared had still not payed , although I heard he had a setback in his business I remained calm while sending him a quick reminder which he didn’t reply. It was now a month and and I still didn’t get my money, so I went to his house and I learnt that he had sold it, so I called him , he asked me to meet him at a coffee shop, and I did. On getting there he was dressed in casual clothes and Jared never wore casual clothes he told me all the losses he had through the month he then handed over to me an envelope full of money, he returned the money without interest for what he had borrowed, but I couldn’t get myself to hassle him for it seeing his situation. I walked for a co-operative for loans and Jared was my client I didn’t want to collect the money but yet I still had too because it wasn’t mine and I already had to explain for the interest that was not paid. How can something be so right yet so wrong.

Have you ever been in a situation where something was so right yet it felt so wrong, it happens to me alot . What do you do in a situation like this, where you are doing what’s right logically yet you feel so wrong.

Many at times in life logic and truth must not be mistaken for the same thing, something may be right as a matter of fact but in reality it’s not. We are humans and people choose to judge others based on what they wear, say or do. But in truth we have no right to judge anyone not even ourselves, telling what’s right from what’s wrong may seem hard but there is always a way.

Some weeks ago I had to decide on something and although the answer was very clear and simple, it was a yes or no question and I wanted to choose the latter but it felt wrong. Logic is not reality, people have termed what is logical but we should remember that people make mistakes logic does not determine right or wrong, the truth is that all logic is , is just a hollow to the face of a picture, it deals with perception .

When you are faced with a decision like this choose the right one not based on logic but on truth.

Love Pixie💖

To Septembrell

I am writing this to you on my blog to tell you how special you are, thanks for voting for my book, because if you never voted I would never meet someone as beautiful and amazing as you are *I am not bluffing*

Well for all of you who don’t know who I am talking about , I don’t know her either, but one thing I know is she is the best. She is courageous and brave. Like if I had been through what she went through I’d probably do things I dare not speak of.

Well to Sep, (Naadia)

Thanks for being amazing, thanks for being who you are because you are amazing 😊, for real .

Live like everyday is the last, live on because you are amazing, brilliant and beautiful just the way you are. If you see clothes you like buy them, do not leave yourself with any regret.

If anything matters then everything matters………when we learn to let go of the past new flowers will bloom, trees will flourish, nectar will be new. Let go.

A. The promise of a pain free world, is that what you seek

B. Yes

A. Well no one is immune to pain, love always leaves a mark. If you are not ready to get a mark then you are not ready to love anyone not even yourself. Please love yourself for who you are, because a situation is not who you are, you are who you are.

So I ask , Who are you?

Love Pixie💖💖

The Taste of of guilt

When life seems to give us an unfair shake, then we’have got to stick our tongues 👅 in mud, and wash it all over again.

Covered up by invisible walls, we seem to have our cake and eat it all by ourselves, memories that will never be forgotten, yet life goes on, reminants remain, all by ourselves we try to keep the mountain in our mouth, heartache is the word you are looking for, spring may come but the leaves will never grow again, it’s a forgotten memory that will remain everfresh in our minds, it’s painful yet we smile, every single remembrance of it makes my heart shake and makes tears fall from my eyes, hopefully one day I will be rid of this knife that keeps everpiercing into my heart, hopefully I will be able to smile truthfully again

Hey🙂, hope you are doing well, I taught about the feeling of guilt and I came up with this post. Guilt, guilt, it’s a feeling that makes me feel less of a human, yeah I know we make mistakes, but when a mistake I made causes someone a smile or even rest, I feel 😞 awful, knowing that even though I didn’t do it intentionally someone got hurt.

I imagine someone whose car hits a person who was crossing the road, and in a scenario where it was definitely an accident, and then the person dies. For some people you may just forget it or even convince yourself that it wasn’t your fault, and then you live on, but then for some people (like me) they would cry for weeks, probably try to compensate the victims family, you would probably try your very best to make yourself, feel less Guilty.

Guilt is a feeling that mentally kills you and injures you emotionally, when I feel guilty I try to correct my mistakes, apologize and also try to make the other person feel better. One day you will feel guilty , I don’t know for what it would be , but you will feel bad, it would happen, but I hope you get over it.

Do tell me how you feel about guilt, are you guilty😉? For what ? How do you make yourself feel better😊 when you’re guilty, I’d like to know below in the comment section🤔

XOXO Puxila 💖

Memories of nobody

Maybe after all , all we want is someone who will remember us, when we are gone, though we may not last long but knowing that someone out there will not forget me matters, I would like to have a friend whose memories I wouldn’t have to alter, a friend whose voice will always be in my head, maybe then I would have the happiest day of my life

Even under a bright sun, tears still fall, a choking air, why? Why? It’s all gone, there’s nothing left, only reminants of nothing, should’ve been gone along time ago, but I held on to a slit rope at the cost of my head, and now I am a walking dead, breathing yet got no air, moving yet with no legs, memories enstranged to their owners , even they can’t remember, drifting away, nowhere to be found, yet a ray of hope pops up, no one will win, we all have ours to find.

If you happen to die today (happen to, I don’t wish anyone death) have you achieved something worth talking about, would someone remember you, after so many years of living, striving and walking on this Earth , if you happen to die what do you think would happen, will someone miss you, would someone come to your grave and drop flowers or would your grave be covered with dust and shrubs.

I don’t know about you but, if I happen to die today, I have nothing to regret because I have lived every second like it mattered, I have laughed and frowned because I wanted to, I have lived my own share of happiness and I wouldn’t want more nor less, because I am happy with what I have turned out to be, my name may not be on everyone’s lips, it may not be on every paper, website and blog, but my name is on the lips of those who matter to me.

The reason I hold on tightly to memories is because time will come and go, seasons will change the earth will evolve and revolve but no matter what memories never change.

Hey people: how are you doing ? I don’t wish anyone death I repeat, I wish you long live and prosperity, but please sit down and ask yourself if you have done anything that matters for people around you , hold on to your memories and cherish every single moment you have , because it matters. I’d like to hear from you all.

Love Pixie💖

Quitters aren’t winners: Don’t quit.

When we say don’t quit it means don’t give up, when you try hard to perfect something and fail it simply means you just haven’t put in your all, keep trying, don’t stop , it will eventually pay off.

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will , when the road you are trudging seems all uphill, when the funds are low and the debts are high, and you want to smile but you have to sigh, when care is pressing you down abit. Rest if you must but don’t quit

Life is queer with it’s ups and downs, life is queer with it’s twist and turns, as everyone of us sometimes learns and many a fellow turns about when he might have won had he stuck on to it don’t give up though the pace seems slow, you may succeed with another blow

Often the goal is nearer than it seems to a faint and faltering man; often the struggler has given up when he learned too late, when the night came down, how close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out. The silver tint in the clouds of doubt, and you never can tell how close you are, it might be near when it seems afar, so stick to the fight when it brings it’s hardest hit, It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit. Don’t quit!!!!!!!

I know of a certain someone who came to the world one morning, she started crawling and then she fell, she tried to stand and then like every other time she fell over, one particular day she was kept on the bed and then she tried to get up but this time she fell of the bed, she was injured and she cried alot but after sometime she smiled again, and she tried to get up once again, but this time she held on to something and then she stood on her feet. Just like that she started walking without support and then she started running, later she would jump up on those same legs, and today she is one of the top walkway models. Don’t quit, it may seem hard but one day it will pay off and then you wouldn’t even remember how many times you failed

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War

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With your sword on your right hand and your heart on your left, blood dripping down like a waterfall, cherry blossoms fall, many are gone all for one fight, the fight of truth, the fight of Justice and peace, only the great one seateth and watches from above.

Salty tears fall, the air smells of fresh blood, the soil has been defiled, the wind plays a sad Melody, yet all we can hear is slash- slash-slash-slash-, it goes on and on and on until finally, life is lost. I wonder will this sound be that of the bird that chirps, and wolf that howls in my life, it won’t stop, before me it had already begun and even now that life slowly slips from my hands it still continues. It is now a tradition and custom, uncreated by anyone, how do we end it.

Slash slash slash slash slash slash slash – warning begiven to the bearer of the sword, and danger awaits the opponent 💀☠️☠️.

Hi guys, truth be said I feel an emotional rush, so I came up with this short writing, it reminds me of the stories of wars in the olden days, a time were men carried their swords and slaughtered each other, a time where mothers would hide their children in pots, war, war!!!, I hope that we face no more wars like the world war I and II, I do not want to see a world full of dead bodies, nor smell the air of fresh blood.😞😔, Please let’s work together to solve disputes, do not let misunderstandings get the better of you .😩 Please do it for the little children, they want to have hope for a tommorow, do it for the babies that are yet to be born 🤰, let us work together to build a peaceful world.

XOXO Puxila 💖