People always have something to say. They don’t ever quite talking. Yeah, whether it’s celebrity news or the calamities that has befallen someone ( my neighbour’s uncle’s grandson’s nephew).

Phewwww.😴😪….. Give me a break. Whether its a distant relative or a celebrity we’d never met. Yes we, you and I do it alot. People will always have something to say; “You are a mistake, you are ugly, you are a disgrace, you can’t do it, you should stop trying, you are not capable, you are a lost case, you are useless, you are hopeless, you are a failure.” People will say many things, but if we listen to everything others say we become deaf to the truth.

What does it matter if i am poor, what does it matter if he lives on the street, what does it matter if she has got no food to eat, all that matters is that people get something to gossip about. The fastest news, tweeters, instagrammers and so called reporters end up spreading rumors about what isn’t true. People always want to have something to talk about and that is why people will always talk.

Many people today have lost their will to live, just because of what people will say. If we were to name what 70% of the world fears the most its what people would say. This is called ‘allodoxaphobia’ medically but whats with I can’t do it, people will talk.

Society does not have a say on the decisions we make, it’s our life our choice, people would have achieved alot of things if they didn’t care about what society had to say, truly, maybe society has some truth in its customs but nevertheless whether society gives it’s approval or disapproval we still have the final say.

We shouldn’t let what people say or what people will say affect our lives, no matter how hurtful it may be to us, we should be able to take charge of what we do.

From me to you; People will talk, they will laugh, they will gossip, and they will chatter, it’s all up to you, give them the final say or make your own choice, don’t let people get to you, it will hurt ( trust me I understand 😣) but at the end of the day it’s all up to you.😌 It’s a new month, start this month being free from other people’s thought.😊

XOXO Puxila 💖