https://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js

It’s very hard to decide, it’s stressful to choose, but every single time in life we have to make a choice, when we wake up in the morning, we have to decide what we want to do first, every single minute , we make a decision.

In Home economics class am sure we were all taught ‘ Decision making’. At some point am pretty sure you remember but if you have forgotten, here is a quick reminder.

First step. know the decision to be made.Actualize your situation.

Second step. place all the available options and alternatives down

Third step. Prioritize your alternatives. You have got to place them in order of importance or simply weigh them according to the situation.

Fourth step. Choose the best decision.

Fifth step. Act on your decision and finally, evaluate your decision. Did you make the right one?

So, these are basically all the steps we were taught in school. But if I may ask, if you had to choose between two lives,in a case where you have got to choose one at the stake of the other. Do this steps still apply?

The question here is, are we supposed to prioritize one life to another? Assuming there is no hatred, malice, love or any form of attachment involved, it’s simply a matter of two people’s lives. What would your answer be? At that time some of us would say, ” I am stuck between a rock and a hardplace”. What do you do when this time comes?

I would be the biggest liar if I told you I knew the answer, but one thing I am sure of, is that a day will come, you will be unaware, maybe even unprepared, and then this question pops up. A decision will be brought to you, awaiting your answer(s),choice(s), and whatever your answer may be, will decide yours or someone’s fate, will change things around you and even the lives of your loved ones. What will it be? What will you choose?

When I was about moving into my first term in senior secondary school, like everybody else I had to choose between being a science or an art student🤔. To be sincere, it was a matter of my future, my career, and maybe my entire life😔. I was conflicted, not that it was my first time thinking about this but i thought I still had time. While I was in junior school, I would think about it, at first I wanted to be a lawyer, and then later I changed my mind, I wasn’t really sure of what I wanted to become in future, I was indecisive 🤨. I kept moving forward till I got to my first year in senior secondary school, and then it was finally time to make my decision.

Truthfully, I was both happy and sad…..mixed feelings you would say. I cried silently sometimes😌 (maybe you’ll understand). One day, my mum said to me ” whatever you choose is fine” and it’s true. It’s my life if I choose to be an art student no one would kill me for it, whatever I chose was just fine. I don’t think what I chose was important , but I will tell you this, it is very hard to make a decision, it takes alot of courage to make a decision, and I know that. So for those of you who have to decide, I tell you this, not to comfort you, or because I know what to choose, but I tell you this because it’s true whatever you choose is just fine. 💯😌

Thank you very much for the love you have shown so far, everyone at Pixie’s Blog is saying “thank you”.

I really hope this post has helped you. I’d like to hear your opinion and do share any useful tips, you never know it may just change someone’s life. Do comment all your answers below.

Don’t forget to share this with someone you love !!

Xoxo, Puxila 💖